Braving the Wilderness: Finding true belonging

Braving The Wilderness, Bréné Brown

Books are a passport to different worlds, and book clubs serve as a gateway to shared experiences. In line with our new Social Circle book club, making its debut on 24th July, I felt compelled to share my reflections on a book that has struck a chord, forcing me to embark on a profound exploration of the elusive quest for belonging.

In her empowering book, “Braving the Wilderness,” Bréné Brown encourages us to embrace the courage to stand alone and navigate the untamed territories of life, with the objective of finding true belonging.

The wilderness of life is an uncharted terrain filled with uncertainties, challenges, and growth opportunities. It is in this vast landscape that we find the space to explore, experiment, and discover who we truly are. Braving the wilderness means embracing the discomfort of the unknown, taking risks, and pushing beyond our comfort zones. As we navigate this wilderness, we encounter diverse experiences, perspectives, and encounters that shape our identity and deepen our understanding of ourselves and others. The wilderness teaches us resilience, adaptability, and the importance of embracing change as a catalyst for personal growth and connection.

True belonging is not found by conforming or seeking validation from others. It is discovered when we have the courage to be our authentic selves, unapologetically embracing our quirks, imperfections, and unique perspectives. By standing alone, we attract kindred spirits who appreciate and celebrate our individuality. These connections are based on mutual respect, shared values, and genuine understanding. Belonging is not about fitting into a mould, but rather about creating a space where we can truly be seen and accepted for who we are.

It is in braving the wilderness that we discover true belonging and forge authentic connections. To find true belonging, we must have the courage to stand alone, to be true to ourselves even when it feels uncomfortable or uncertain. It is in those moments of vulnerability that we discover our authentic voice, values, and beliefs. By embracing our uniqueness, we create a strong foundation for genuine connections with others who align with and appreciate our true selves. Standing alone requires self-assurance, resilience, and a willingness to step away from the crowd, but it is through this brave act that we invite others to join us on the path of authentic belonging.

The book’s message is simple: Embrace the wilderness, be fearless, and embark on the extraordinary journey of finding true belonging.

To all those currently part of Social Circle and those interested in joining: Let’s gather the strength to honour our true selves whilst braving the unknown paths of life, and forge connections that celebrate our courage to do so.

By Stephen Sutherland

Social Circle is a group of individuals who develop friendships and share good times. We drink together, walk together, we go on holidays together. In addition to the free cinema nights, restaurant visits and nights out, you will meet many like minded people, share great new experiences, and make memories that will last a lifetime.